I Need Relationship Advice: I’ve Been Dating My Gf for About 3 Months Would Like Some Neutral Outside Opinions?

I've been dating my gf for 3 months now and I don't want to overreact but certain things have been on my mind based on some events that occurred the past 2 weeks and I was hoping I could get some solid advice. Back story#1: Ive been dating her for 3 months and I asked her to be my gf 2 weeks ago which she absolutely said yes to and was happy about. Now before we started dating both of us had been out of the dating game for a year and we had previously been in very long term relationships that ended the same horrible way for both of us: we got cheated on. Ill admit I may be still rusty and adjusting to my new girl and maybe have picked up some bad neurotic tendencies (that I only show in private ha ha as you can see by me posting this question ha ha) because of how crazy my last gf was so I know I could be just overreacting. Back story #2 Recently I know shes been stressed with work and there has been a serious change in her family dynamic at home that was a huge shock. Back story #3: Ive been busy with school, and in my relationships no matter how long we've been dating, I always put my gf as a main priority, that's just me automatically as a boyfriend, and so whenever I have free time I always think about her first. Because of that I have noticed that I have neglected my friends. I have met the majority of her friends and it donned on me that shes only met 1 of my friends ha ha and I don't want her to think im clingy or I don't have friends so this week ive specifically been making an effort to have her come out with me and my friends. Back story #4 She has made it a point to me that if something is wrong she would let me know straight up. I only saw her once last week and I may not even see her this week. We also haven't been intimate for a couple weeks (she has been sick too).

Maybe im overreacting and this could be because I have a big heart and I really care about her and shes worth it all 100%. Yes we are are just starting out but it kind of feels like im low on her priority list right now in her life and that is fine if its true because Im a big boy I can take it and Im just going to have to show her that it doesn't bother me and work hard to get up on that list, but it does feels strange to me because I put her at the top and you would like the same in return. It has been mostly me that has asked her about her availability to go out and hang out and that has started to annoy me a bit because I would like her to do the same for me. Not having sex for a while has bothered me a too and as far as I could tell she told me it was amazing last time. Back story #5: before I asked her to be my gf I noticed we were more affectionate and closer and since then I have noticed a shift from that and I am a little worried.

I plan on talking to her soon about clearing things up making sure she knows that I want her to meet my friends and I want her to know that in no way am I clingy and that I know its important to have individuality and personal time and hang out with friends even in a relationship. I guess I just wish she would make a little more effort in making time for me. Am I overreacting over these 2 weeks and sex? If the status quo is the same for another week should I have a serious talk with her? Any solid advice would be great.

thanks

WHOA chill out. You're going to smother the crap out of her, if you haven't already. Even if you think you're not, I can tell you – you are. Work on your self confidence! If she's with you, it's because she likes you, so just be happy & don't overthink it.