Theres something that often happens when youre out playing the seduction game, that is, when youre actively looking out for girls you think youd like to hook-up with. Talking to women is most likely goal number one on your guy’s to do list. Then, you see the girls you want to approach. They are in a group and one girl stands out in particular to you. You have gotten the courage to talk to the girls. Something doesn’t seem right though.
All her friends are very approachable but the girl you were focusing on isn’t giving you much action to work with.
Don’t fret. She not giving you attention because shes not attracted to you. It is because you have subconsciously and probably unintentionally boosted her ego and feeling of self-worth.
She gets the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court. She doesn’t want to lose her value her friends see her in so she doesn’t respond as some girl who’s easy as Sunday Morning.
At this point, you should change your approach and solve this problem by using the Deflection Theory. This is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that onto one or more of her girlfriends.
The Deflection Theory is when you take that interest and attention from the girl you are interested in and focus that energy onto one or more of her girlfriends. By doing so you stop giving her the attention she was getting and is going to start to wonder why you arent giving that attention anymore to her.
The fact that you arent showing her any love now she is going to start to wonder whats wrong with her. She is going to try to now get your interest back, which is what you’ll gladly take. See how the guy gets the girl with this?
This is a great technique to bring a challenge to a girl. Girls are intrigued by challenges and welcome them. Use the Deflection Technique to bring more success to your dating scene…
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