My Girlfriend Has a "crush" on Someone Else, Advice?

We're been dating for almost 11 months now. I am a freshman in college and she is still a Junior in High School. Though she's young, since I met her, my life and personality changed drastically. She brought in me so much confidence, happiness, and affection I never thought I would feel. I can definitively say that I love her. And I have loved her for months now. She complied, and for about six months, it was all paradise. Six months in, a girl that liked me apparently, created a major issue in our relationship. We were able, however, to work through it. Time passed, I went to college, started working, and now see her on limited occasions. Recently, we were about to break up, as she developed a "crush" on a senior from her school. She sees him for one period, everyday. The way she's talked about him makes it seem like she truly is developing feelings for him. Three weeks ago, I gave her a week. I distanced myself entirely, and gave her time to decide what, or who, she wanted. She said that she still wanted to be with me, though she no longer loved me and was "in the middle" between love and moving on. Her personality is somewhat distracted at times, and mine is serious and at times, over agitated. I am a jealous man, and when she said she liked him (because we talked this over when we were about to break up), my whole body went cold. I, honestly, have never been so hurt and angry in my life. At this point, I'm sure she has feelings for that boy, yet we continue to "date" on a less intensified level compared to the beginning of the relationship. I may have given too much information, but it is only because I really want honest advice. Feel free to ask more if you need to. PLEASE help.

I think you need to ask yourself, do I want to be in a relationship with someone whose heart isn't in it? I know yousay you love her but she obviously doesnt feel as passionate as you do and staying together seems as though you're just hurting each other. I suggest you break up with her. If you ask her to choose she will either choose him which would kinda suck or xhoose you but pine for him which is pretty much where you started. So I know it might hurt but make a clean break, cherish the good memories you shared together and find someone that loves you and only you. But if you don't want to let her go, fight for her! Show her what made her fall for you in the first place! Rekindle the passion!

Good luck!

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