Celebrity unions and breakups are solid proof that relationships are always tested. Sometimes relationships survive, and sometimes they fail. Tom Cruise, Nicole Kidman, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are just few of the stars whose love stories and shocking breakups teach you this lesson.
Breakups usually give you just two options: Either you move on or you dont. If you still feel strongly for your ex girlfriend (which is only natural), theres nothing wrong if you try to salvage your relationship. This seven-part guide should help you.
First, it is essential to commit yourself to work on rekindling the old flames. You have to make the first move.
Secondly, you must find out the real reason behind the break-up. Your ex girl friend may try to conceal this from you, but you have to get to the bottom of the matter and detect it correctly. This will help immensely in winning her back.
Next, you must train yourself to be flexible. A reluctance to change and a refusal to bend to your girlfriends wishes might cause a break-up. You should come to terms with each other as you are – qualities, shortcomings and all.
Fourth, seek aid from your ex girlfriends chums and family members. If youve been a good guy to them, they wont hesitate to support you.
You have to realize that both of you need some breathing space, some time to cool off. There is little sense in trying to reach to her right after the break-up; she probably wont respond. Heated arguments are common at this stage. A time will come when both of you can think coolly; that is the opportune moment to contact her. You could drop off a note, send her a text message, or write her a thoughtful email. Be contrite, but do not overdo it. Behave as a friend would, not an ex-lover.
A very important tip that you should keep in mind if you really want to win back her love is that never rush in to things. Be slow, steady, and patient.
The final step you could take is to initiate a meeting with her. Be candid with her, do not justify yourself. If she agrees to meet up with you, there is ample chance of a reunion.
Of course, a bit of luck will help but the rest is entirely up to you. When your ex girlfriend does come back, dont forget the best move of all: love her.
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