Confidence is number one on the list of traits women desire in men!
Lot of men are confident in many aspects of their life but feel highly insecure when it comes to approaching women. They see a woman at a coffee shop, mall, bar or on the street and want to approach but are afraid. They are afraid because they do not have enough experience or success in the past with dating women.
They think that they will upset the woman by approaching her. They tell themselves that their approach will not be welcomed by women. They are afraid to be the next guy who gets shot down. They are just too afraid to get rejected.
These men want to be able to approach women. They would love to ask a woman out on a date but they are too afraid to act. They beat themselves down later on for not having the courage to approach women. Few cycles of this behavior and they convince themselves that they do not have what it takes to get women.
You never disrespect or offend a woman by approaching her. You are simply paying her a compliment and letting her know that she is desirable. When was the last time you got offended upon receiving a compliment?
Women only get offended when guys treat them like a piece of meat. If you are reading this you are obviously someone who is trying to learn the right way and so you never have to worry about offending a woman with your approach.
Women would love you for approaching them when you approach them the right way. So spend some time learning the right way of approaching women.
All the reasoning for not approaching women are mere excuses. I know this from experience. You are making excuses because you do not feel confident. Right now you do not see yourself as the guy who can attract women.
A lot of how you feel is a result of your past experiences and the social messages that were passed on to you. Take my words that you will become good with women and you will end up dating beautiful women if you keep pushing yourself and approach at least two women a day. In a matter of days you will start to see results and find your confidence growing.
Its like taking a new hobby. It takes a little while before you become good at it. You dot give up on it when you make mistakes.
Just like that you may not feel confident today when approaching women but keep practicing and soon you will be in control. You will be able to approach any woman anywhere with little practice.
Dont think and start approaching women right away!
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