Women desire to date men with confidence!
Many men do not approach women because they feel insecure. They lack confidence to approach women despite the fact that they might be very successful in other domains of their life. This happens because they did not achieve much success in dating women in their past.
They think that they will upset the woman by approaching her. They tell themselves that their approach will not be welcomed by women. They are afraid to be the next guy who gets shot down. They are just too afraid to get rejected.
They want to approach and meet this woman but they give into their fear. Then they beat themselves for not making the move.This happens few times and they lose their confidence for good. They start to believe that they cannot approach and attract women.
You never disrespect or offend a woman by approaching her. You are simply paying her a compliment and letting her know that she is desirable. When was the last time you got offended upon receiving a compliment?
Women get offended when guys approach them in a disrespectful manner. Using pick up lines and cheesy openers they think women have no brains and should be treated like second class citizens. You do not have to worry about offending women because you obviously are spending time and doing research to discover correct ways of approaching and dating women.
Dont be afraid to approach women. Learn the right method and see how women will be flattered by your approach and literally throw themselves at you.
All the excuses you are making for not approaching women is because you feel insecure. I used to be the same way. But things will not change if you do not take any action.
It is not your fault that you feel this way. A lot of it is coming from the way you were conditioned during your growth. But I can assure you that your confidence to succeed with women will continue to grow if you keep practicing to approach women no matter what.
Think about a time when you started to play a new sport. You did not feel confident at first. With training and practice you built your skills and consequently you started to feel confident with that sport.
Just like that you may not feel confident today when approaching women but keep practicing and soon you will be in control. You will be able to approach any woman anywhere with little practice.
Stop worrying and start believing in yourself!
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