Dating For Guys On A Schedule
One of my favorite men’s dating and seduction gurus is Michael Pilinski. He is the author of an outstanding title that you can find out more about on my Without Embarrassment review page.
Mike Pilinski differs from other dating guru’s in a couple of ways. One of them is that he is completely straightforward about what it is that he wants from a woman, and if it is to get laid, he says so. Moreover, he is quite frank in his revelations about how you too can get laid – fast! If that is the kind of thing you need to know about, then Mike has a great deal to tell you about how you can get the job done.
After you have finished reading his book, not only will you understand exactly what you must do to get sex on the first date, but you will need to think about whether you want to employ that power to get what you want immediately, every time you meet a new woman – because once you have switched on that sexual torrent in a woman, she is going to be expecting something from you on every subsequent date. You may have to work hard to outdo yourself!
The reality for most guys, of course, is that they would be more than lucky to eventually have sex with even one out of every five women they take out on a date. Even then, the duration required to lead up to the event could be weeks or even months. Most guys just have no idea HOW to go about engineering the situation so that sex on the first date is not only a natural conclusion to the night, but something that the girl will be expecting long before you get her to her front door.
Michael Pilinski recognizes this essential truth of dating for guys because he was once in their shoes. He remembers the frustration and anxiety that goes hand in hand with the primary aim of trying to get laid fast but knowing that you just do not have the temerity to follow it through with the kind of action needed to make your date want to throw caution to the wind and jump right into your bed along with you.
What you must have to get laid, Mike says, is a four part plan. His plan. Briefly, it consists of the following parts:
[1] If you are on a date with her then you are already to second base. Otherwise you need to do what it takes to gain her attention and make it known that you and she should be spending some time together. Once you are with her, the rest will become simply a matter of reading from the Pilinski play book. So make eye contact, engage her, and find a way to bring her into your world as quickly as you can. First impressions are important, and Michael will give you a lot of advice about how to steer her thinking your way.
[2] Learn how to seize on the slightest signal from her that she may be interested in you as a prospective partner. You may not get a second chance with her, so use what Michael has to say about reading a woman from the way she behaves and the things that she says when she is around you. Recognize your opportunities when they present themselves, and exploit whatever interest she shows for you.
[3] Get a commitment from her for a time and place where the two of you can meet up and do something together. It does not even have to be a date – any excuse to spend time together is going to sway the odds in your favor that a sexual union will eventually take place – and soon, if you follow the tips that Michael offers in his book. The biggest mistake guys make is not being ready for the opportunities that a woman will confer automatically whenever she meets a man for the first time.
[4] Be the man who knows exactly what he wants and how to get it. This is important. No man gets sex from a woman because she decides to simply throw herself at you (well, few men). It is a delicate dance of seduction that the successful guy partakes in willingly and knowledgeably. There are no accidents when it comes to getting laid on your first date. You must know how to play the game if you are to succeed at it, and do it every time you play again. In short, it is a science, and one that can be learned if you follow someone who has worked out the rules of attraction for you.
If you need the exact details on the strategies outlined briefly here, check out this how to get laid fast article from Michael Pilinski. You can also find reviews of other top rated books on dating for men on the same site.