Is the prospect of dating a nice guy really what women want? As the popular saying goes, nice guys finish last. Although bad boys are more enticing, when it comes to finding someone to spend the rest of their life with, women want a guy who treats them well, offers a secure and stable environment, has a clear head and keeps their best interests at heart.
Look for the following ideals in your ideal good guy. A lack of crippling emotional problems, no alcohol or drug addiction, a stable job, anger management control, someone who oozes confidence and charm, is polite and considerate, romantic and sensual, has a great circle of friends, good values and above all, is sure of himself in terms of goals.
Every woman should consider dating a nice guy. Sadly, many are attracted to those with bad qualities from previous experiences. Others may compare someone to their father and choose similar characteristics, which is not necessarily a good thing if the dad was not a good role model. This is why it is important for women to take some time to identify what they are truly looking for and stick with this criteria when evaluating.
Being single and lonely is not much fun, but it should not rule your actions when it comes to looking for the next guy. Don’t rush into things. Take your time, discover yourself and what you really want and you would be in a much better position to go out into the dating arena.
Dating a nice guy means going on numerous dates. Just because you don’t feel anything on the second or third date doesn’t mean the guy isn’t right for you. It takes time to develop a solid relationship. Date for a couple of months to see if any chemistry develops before moving on.
Women are generally interested in dating a nice guy due to several important characteristics. Studies have shown that women are attracted to certain traits, wealth, physical attractiveness, agreeableness, and dominance.
You might not be dating a nice guy, the guy might just have “nice guy syndrome”! This means that, whilst he will do everything that he can for you on the surface, exuding charm and all the niceties, he will change when the initial chase is over. His true personality will likely then rise to the surface. You do not want this type of man in terms of a long-term partnership or marriage.
Many women consider nice guys to be sweet and loyal, but not thrilling or passionate. But its a perception that is far from the truth. If you’re looking for a mate who is fun, exciting and adventurous, there is a nice Mr. Right out there for you. Its just a matter of finding him.
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