Most men want to know how to kiss a girl. You need to ensure that the girl wants to get romantic with you before you initiate that first kiss.
Here are ways to ensure if the girl desires you as a romantic partner and is ready to be kissed by you:
1. Look into her eyes and gently stroke her hair or run your fingers through her hair.
2. Hold one of her hand or both of them and gently squeeze them.
3. Make an eye contact and slowly brush her arm.
If she responds positively to two of the three then she is ready to be kissed.
Don’t expect her to do the same. She does not have to brush your arm, squeeze your hand or show any other form of affection to convey her feelings to you. As long as she does not object to your moves, you can safely assume she is ready to be kissed.
Once you have tested that she is ok to be kissed. Step slowly towards her or pull her close and lean forward. Now kiss her on the lips. Start with a peck on her lips, followed by a longer kiss.
There is no need to pull back after you kiss her the first time. You could stay in the kiss position, take a look in her eyes and go for the long kiss.
Once in a while the girl may be surprised that you kissed her or tried to kiss her. As a result it is also possible that she may pull back when you try to kiss her. This does not necessarily mean that she does not want to get romantically involved with you. Neither does it mean that she does not want to be kissed by you.
She might have pulled back because she was not expecting a kiss at that moment. May be you did not give her enough indicators to expect a kiss at that moment.
If you have performed the above three tests, chances are that the girl will not pull back when you go for the kiss.
The girl will vocalize her objection or walk away from you if she did not want to be kissed by you. If she does neither of them she probably is looking forward to another kiss.
Test her comfort again by running the above three tests again.
If she still does not object to most of the tests than you can definitely go for the kiss again. You will be able to kiss her this time because she will be prepared and expecting it now.
Few additional tips:
. Have a good breadth before you go for the kiss. Use some mint or breath freshener few minutes before the kiss.
. Don’t start professing your love to the girl right after you kiss her. It is too early in the game.
. Shave your face if you plan to go for the kiss. You don’t want to scratch her face.
. Don’t try to kiss her in front of her friends when you kiss her the first time.
. Don’t fight, convince or put pressure on the girl if she is not comfortable kissing. It might happen later if you do not appear needy or clingy. It is ok if she does not want to kiss right now.
. You can make things a bit more romantic by holding her hands or hold her on the hips when kissing. You could also whisper something in her ears between breaks from kissing. Try playing with her hair. Most girls love it. Whisper and go back for another kiss. Make it a long one this time.
. It is too obvious and boring to kiss at the end of the night. Be spontaneous by kissing her early in the night.
. Don’t get all awkward after you kiss her. Don’t go all sexual either unless you are absolutely sure that she would be ok with it. You do not want to make things awkward or ruin the moment by coming across as uncomfortable or desperate.
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