We have all been there. You see a girl and you become magically attracted to her. You want to make her yours and invite her out on a date however you do not know how to be able to do such a thing. I will help you out here by giving you tools such as that of improving your skills of first impression, of conversation with girl and others. You will be the man who knows to whom he is attracted and more importantly know what has to be done in order to talk to such women.
Let’s start
Your image!
It simply does not work in a way where you must change the way you look just to impress her. If a girl is attracted to you then she will stay attracted no matter how you look. This does not mean that you should not take care of yourself because it matters if you do not take the time necessary to prepare yourself for a special occasion such as the first date.
First impressions count
Many people say this and it is 100% true, so be polite. This doesn’t mean talking like the king of England, but this is really what you should do all the times. Say hello and introduce yourself, she should then introduce her self back. Just be confident and think about what your saying! Keep it short and sweet until you see her when she isn’t busy. I recommend going into a bar for a drink with a friend to practice talking to girls, you will soon pick up what they like to talk about and what they don’t.
Talking to girls
Imagine the girl that you so desperately want to meet sitting on her own at a table in a restaurant. Now is your time to go up and meet her. Just do it. You can go up to her and ask her if it is all right if you sit in the seat next to her. Most probably, if you are not freaking her out, she will say yes. Introduce yourself to her and try to get to know her a little bit. Talk to her about fun things that she has done in the recent days. If she says no, just do not panic and tell her that maybe it will happen some other time.
Practice makes perfect
This is also 100% true, would you show your friends a magic trick if you did no how to do it so why do it with the girl you really like. Go to the pub and practice talking to girls even if they are well out of your league, people go to pub and clubs to meet people and socialize so go make use of it and save embarrassment later. You may even find it fun!
Getting a date
So… you have finally plucked up the courage to ask her on a date. Now is the time to really find out if she likes you as a friend or as something more. There is a couple of sweet lines I use nothing cheesy like these chat up lines you hear about off the internet. I simply ask if she would like to go for a coffee sometime, the answer should be YES but this doesn’t mean she wants you to be her boyfriend. This is more a drink with a friend to get to know them more.
The Date
Ok, so the big day has arrived. Dress casually, however do it in a smart way. You should arrive at your date location about 10 minutes earlier than the time that you were suposed to meet – This will show her that you can manage your time well. Also, upon arriving open up the door for her and find a location that is not in a cold draft place to sit. Offer to buy her coffee and after the order is taken you should start by asking her about her day and events that happened it in. Trying mixing in one or two jokes here and there and she will surely have a great time. When it’s time to leave offer to walk her home and at the time when you are going to end the date ask her if she would like to meet again. If she says yes just be sure to get her number so that you can call her in a couple of days.
The phone call
The day after your date you should usually call her to see how things are going. Find a time during which you think she will not be busy and dial her number with confidence. Then tell her your name and ask her how she is. Next, tell her that you had a great time and you would like to do it again on a particular date. If she agrees, you have practically got yourself a new girlfriend.
The kiss
So the second date went well you picked a great place to eat and the wine was great. now is the time to pluck up the courage to kiss her. Walk her home and this time hold her hand, when you get to the door step of her house tell her “I had a great night to night” slightly lean in to kiss her and she should move in to kiss you!
There you have it my simple guide to ‘getting the girl of your dreams’. It is now up to you to do the rest, read some of my other articles they might help you out.
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