im 19 and i was sure that i was full fledge bi, i was starting to worry that i might be a little more, but earlier i went on the interactive male phone line service, and i was trying to hook up with some guys around my area, i then realized how different you can make fantasy from reality, these guys werent appealling to me, i chatted with a few and they got me aroused but not nearly as much as i expected, and when i actually had a guy willing to meet up i couldnt find myself to do it, it just didnt seem as appealing, i hung up because that was doing nothing for me, and i just started to pleasure myself instead, but even then i found it really hard to get off when its usually not a problem with the gay fantasies, i thought i might even be gay but now i realized that i really dont even want to have sex with a guy (ive had straight sex by the way and enjoyed it), and some of you might say "well meet a guy and get to know him before anything" but man on man romance doesnt appeal to me one bit
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It has not really happened to me but one goes through these experiences during puberty to discover more about their sexuality and their preferances and it's only normal that you ask this question.
I think you are a bi-sexual and maybe (just to confirm), you can find out from a psychologist what you are going through. This is BTW not to change anything, just for your education!
For me, it was very clear that I was gay with only streaks of hetrosexuality!
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