All woman wants to be attractive, but if you want to know how to be more attractive to men, you should stop buying into those media that keeps on convincing skinny supermodel represents what men want in a woman. For your information, it is either they are air-brushed, or painted with the best range of cosmetics out there. Trying to achieve that kind of look everyday is just a losing battle. Plus, men are not that superficial anyway.
Despite every woman wanting to be more attractive, competing with ridiculous beauty standards is a losing battle and unrealistic. Unless your name is Barbie (which means you only look for men by the name of ‘Ken’), you will be real. Don’t you think it is good news that women don’t have to waste so much money on laser surgery, hair extensions and cosmetic tattoos just to be more attractive to men? After all, you only need to attract men you want to date, and beauty is in the eye of beholder. So if you want to know how to be more attractive to men, simply do the following steps:
1. Never fake a laugh, or a fake grin.
There is nothing less attractive than faking ear-to-ear grin or laugh. Next time you go to a coffee shop with your friends, have a look around and you will see a couple where one of them is faking the laugh. You will then know what I am saying. But really, a guy is not dumb, he will know if you are faking your laugh or grinning unnecessarily, and it will do the opposite effect rather than to make you look more attractive. But despite saying so, please be generous with your smile, just make sure they’re not fake.
2. Love yourself and gain instant confidence from within.
You are only as attractive as you think. Who would think of you as beautiful if you don’t even believe so? And if you say “I’m not attractive”, well how so? remember what I mentioned about not comparing yourself based on the media standard earlier? Plus, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and YOU are the first beholder there is. Believe me, once you believe that you’re attractive, you will find yourself to be more confident and that’s exactly how to be more attractive to men.
3. Dress to flatter your assets, not fashionable.
Men are visual creatures, and men do not give a crap about the ‘latest fashion trends’ in Cosmopolitan. Many women dress to impress other women, not men. So if you’d like to impress your sex-in-the-city little lady gang, put on the newest fashion trend, including the designer expensive bag and the ‘new winter look’ fashion. But remember that if you want to know how to be more attractive to MEN – not to your girlfriends – you need to learn how to dress to flatter your assets, whether or not it’s the latest trends.
Plus, it’s probably better to own something that last longer than just a season. It will also save some money too. So if you think you are gifted somewhere e.g. your backside or your chest, flaunt them. Just show what you’ve got (without being trashy of course). Find clothing that works for you EVERY time and stick to them. Men don’t care less if you are wearing a pair of jeans from four seasons ago, so go and grab a pair of make-your-bum-look-good jeans from the ‘last season’ in the next last-season sale and go with them.
You must log in to post a comment.