Infidelity Warning Signs Part 1: God, it hurts!… Signs of cheating are usually present well before the man suspects that his wife is cheating. Only looking back will it seem obvious. I feel deeply for those of you out there whose hearts are broken, whose dreams are shredded on the rocky shores of infidelity. The warm, fuzzy feeling of security quickly turns to a cold, wet blanket of fear and doubt.
We may feel secure and happy knowing that the troubles that befall other couples are not ours.
Until reality bites…
Infidelity Warning Signs Part 1: How it hurts! It may be a gradual feeling of unease, a noticed brief moment of eye contact between your wife and another, a comment out of context by a friend or colleague, a story that doesn’t quite add up. But, in that brief moment, the foundation of confidence placed in your wife and marriage starts to crack.
Infidelity Warning Signs Part 1: The uncertainty is murder… It’s scary stuff. What’s going to happen? You fear humiliation of the kind you’ve never felt before. How is it going to feel to know for sure that the woman you love no longer loves you but rather share her life, everything, with another man. What did you do wrong? Guilt overshadows everything. Then, anger. Then the greatest fear of all. What if you are wrong? Would she ever forgive you if you falsely accused her of cheating? What if it’s a long distance thing, how can you catch her at it? One thing’s for sure. You have to get rock solid evidence for or against. Where to start?
Infidelity Warning Signs Part 1: What are you looking for? Start with these items: OVERTIME: Is there a legitimate reason for her to be spending more time at work than usual? Finding out shouldn’t be too hard and this is the number one method of covering an affair. BEHAVIOR: Is she acting out of sorts? Nervous? Does she avoid eye contact with you? FUNDS: Affairs cost money. Where’s hers (and yours) going? Keep a sharp eye on bank statements and credit card bills. GOING PLACES: Is she traveling more now? Is she actually looking forward to it? If her job doesn’t take her out of the office, is she traveling by herself to see “relatives” or “old friends”? THE CAR: Hers or the family’s. Vehicles can be treasure chests of clues. Take your time. Be discrete and thorough. You might be amazed (and heart-broken) by what you find. SEXUAL ACTIVITY: Has she lost interest in it? Maybe she is refusing you with no regard to how much she is hurting you. Whatever, if you have the slightest doubt that she is cheating, take precautions to protect yourself from AIDS and the other killers that are lurking beneath the covers.
Infidelity warning Signs Part 1: When she’s working away from home. Your courses of action when your wife is working in another city are limited, but there still are ways that you can determine whether she is cheating on you or not. If you have the opportunity to visit your wife out of town, you can place tracking software on her computer, place GPS or digital recording devices around the vehicle she is using to see if her stories correlate with the data you are finding, hiring a private investigator to track her movements for a set period of time, and many others.
Infidelity Warning Signs Part 1: At home. If you have a wife who is home every day, you have the added advantage of semen detection kits, cellphone tracking software to recover deleted text messages, as well as ways to talk with your wife and notice any body language anomalies that point towards lying.
Infidelity Warning Signs Part 1: Mastering your search on the web… The internet allows people to develop intimate relationships online before physical contact happens. Distance and location make no difference. Friends, neighbors and people at work used to be the greatest danger for infidelity, Now, it’s the internet. Councilors from all over are reporting a great increase in couples whose woes started on the web.
Infidelity Warning Signs Part 1: Despair…. If your wife is having an online affair, you can feel all alone like on a deserted island of pain. She seems to be operating in a secure place where you can’t get evidence. Take heart. There are many strategies and technologies you can employ to gather the information you need to make a sure and certain decision. Take a little time to learn and experiment. Be willing to think outside the box a little
The answer is closer than you think.
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