Some pick up lines are unbecoming and boring.
When have you heard some of the cheesiest of pick up lines like the following…
“Your name must be Gillette, because you’re the best a man can get.”
Using a line like these will get you nowhere with a woman fast, chances are she will not even speak to you.
Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.
This simply is not true.
A good pick up line will actually do what it says – help you pick up a girl!
Understand: The whole point of using a pick up line is to get a conversation started.
That is all.
After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.
If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.
You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.
A good pick up line is going to actually do what it says – help you pick up a girl!
When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl. I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I’d miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.
“I lost my number, can I have yours?”
All women know this to be a lame pick up line. You might think you’re being clever when you say this, but you’re not.
Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.
Why?
Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.
Good pick up lines avoid “yes and no” answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.
How do you engage a woman in conversation?
Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.
So to give you an example, you could say something like: “Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it’s weird for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman’s perspective on this.”
Then follow up with a short story of how a woman may want her and her children’s zodiac sign to be compatible, so they interact well together throughout their lives.
This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such as:
1. Astrology 2. Children 3. Pregnancy 4. Marriage 5. Relationships
The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:
“Are you a believer in astrology?” (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)
“Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type.”
The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.
This is how conversations are started!
At this point, it’s the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.
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