Finding the secrets to attracting a woman may be easier than you think. Ask one! Furthermore, you will be best served by asking a woman that is similar to the type you’re searching for. To make it easier, we will lay out the main types of women out there and what you need to do in order to attract them.
First and foremost, one of the secrets to attracting women isn’t so secret at all. It starts with how you look; your appearance. You really don’t need to be as attractive as most celebrities, but you need to keep up with your hygience – daily showers, your hair and general grooming. And here is one that is non-intuitive to most men – your shoes. Women pay a lot of attention to shoes. Get some nice ones. Chances are that you are not an athlete either, so get on an exercise program, lose some weight and get in shape. To attract women you at least need to take care of yourself on the most basic levels.
Now, if you want the secrets to attracting women that are athletic and full of energy, then you need to enjoy physical activity as well. Sweat is not necessarily a turn off. Being able to get out there and have some fun is a very attractive quality, especially if you are looking buff these days with your exercise plan in place. You may even find that many of these women in fact actually like competition. Others want to know that you’re also athletic and enjoy taking care of yourself. Mostly, they’re looking for a man that knows how to have fun and can laugh at himself.
On the other hand, sports and working out may not be your thing and you are more attracted to the brainy types. You can attract these women by recognizing and not being threatened by their intelligence and their thirst for knowledge. Your own thirst for knowledge, and your cleaned up well toned appearance, can be a very attractive quality.
Are you looking for a woman who is fun, adventurous, and is even willing to play video games with gusto? This may be the easiest yet – be fun yourself and they’ll notice. If you are looking good, having fun, smiling a lot, and know how to dish out compliments and limit your sarcasm, you are definitely on your way to empowering yourself to attract a woman of your dreams.
The power-lunch type woman is a little tougher. This is the take-control type, organized, driven with an eye for success. They are attracted to similarly driven and successful men. Start by dressing the part. Support this type of woman, congratulate her when appropriate and don’t be threatened by her success. Women like this are hard to attract because romance isn’t so much on their radar. But they’re still human and not immune to romantic overtures. Be sophisticated in courting the career woman.
Overall, the top ‘secrets’ to attracting women are: looking good, being happy yourself and being genuinely interested in her. Women aren’t looking for men they have to take care of. Come to the table with something to offer or at least be working on them, and women will respond. Picking up women does not have to be as hard as the stereotype makes it out to be.
Good luck!
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