Why He Stops Calling After a Great Date and What You Should Do About It

Many times I ‘ve heard women complain about the guy in her life. “He stops calling” is a very common complaint. It happened to me many times during my dating life, and I wonder, just like many other women out there, whether or not I should call a man first rather than keep on waiting by my mocking phone. I mean, don’t they actually like it if women initiate some of the phone calls?

Does this situation sounds like yours? You’ve just met a guy, sparks fly, he won’t take his eyes off yours and you truly believe he feels the same way about you. You had a fantastic time together or even absolutely great few dates…and then ta da! he stops calling.

It’s quite normal for you to wonder and feel like this, maybe you can’t handle your curiosity and start calling him, but you get his voicemail. And if worse, he doesn’t call you back either. You find yourself leaving him messages, sms, e-cards, whatever.

You start panicking. Maybe he has caught a deadly flu? or he’s involved in some kind of accident or maybe he’s dead? It just doesn’t make sense because he was so interested in you on the date. He even told you when he would call you back and mentioned to you where he’d like to take you on the next date. He was so sweet to the point that you start picturing a life together with him, ready to introduce him to your friends. But did you realize that this is just a woman’s common tendency to take herself into the future? Resulting in her expectation goes way higher than it should be. So when he stops calling, she straight away gets even more panicky that she dial his number in desperation. If you’ve ever read my article on rules of calling men, you should know that calling men when you are in desperation mode is a wrong move altogether.

I guess many women ask these sort of questions all the time. Why does he stop calling me? Doesn’t matter how they phrase it, women want to know the exact reasons why would a man stop calling after awesome first date, second date, or even after going steady for a while? Is he simply not into me just like the book he’s not that into you?

Well, what you can really do right now is to control yourself, ignore the urge of calling him. Stop looking at your mobile phone for just today. As you hopefully know, it is better to let the man call you first in this case – at least you know it’s convenient for him to do so. Don’t put your life on hold because of him. The last thing you want is to waste your life on a man who never calls back simply because he is not interested since the beginning.

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