Love is on everybody’s mind. Sometimes it seems that the only problem in this world is love. Whenever you turn on the TV you will see a show about love. It seems to be especially true in North America. Oprah will be pushing another romantic novel and on the next channel some guy with super powers will be flying off with his gorgeous girlfriend.
Books are no different.
Many book covers are sporting pictures of roses, sunrises and sunsets promising the reader a roller coaster of romantic emotions or even advice on how to get over an ex. In magazines celebrities are hunted down by paparazzi. Almost all of those people became famous after taking part in a romantic film.
We are clearly obsessed by this topic and everything that’s related to it.
Please don’t think I’m against it. On the contrary I’m all for love and think people should talk about it more, but in a slightly different form.
Especially in places like Canada and Russia.
Their population is declining. There, a lot of people are more preoccupied with their career advancements and less with the family. Pure things such as love are replaced by values such as greed. Don’t get me wrong, “romantic” shows still get a lot of air time there too. But I think media should concentrate less on the negative and more on the positive. Breakups and unfaithful lovers are put on the spot light, while a simple happy family is considered boring and stays in the background. Books that talk about how to get over an ex don’t help either. May be we should see more titles that give advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back. I sincerely believe that books like that should be more popular than the defeatist attitude ones.
Southern parts of the U.S have staggering separation rates (1 in 3 separate. When will this end? Those are mind blowing statistics! Did people stop trying to fix their problems and simply abandon ship? I think that almost all problems have a solution. Even if one of the union members is cheating, doesn’t mean the couple has to breakup. This act of betrayal, could have been provoked by something. May be it was caused by a grave mistake on the part of the husband? May be this was caused by a miscommunication between husband and wife. I think the 80 / 20 rule applies here too, where as 80 percent of the difference is caused by 20 percent of change. They say that number one reason that makes wives leave is the lack of attention on behalf of the husband.
On that account, I suggest that we cherish each other. Try to be more selfless and your partner will do the same. Let’s be tolerant to each other. Let’s choose love instead of hate. Because life is too short to carry around the extra luggage of hate.
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Just keep in mind, if you really want to get back together with your ex, don’t look pathetic and beg with your tongue hanging out.
Stay cool and give them some space. I have a heap of other tips, just visit my site to get some free tips.
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