OK, so you’re in the bar, sipping your drink with a few friends one night, when you see a really fantastic looking woman across the room. In fact, she’s so hot, you can’t take your eyes off her. You want to go up to her and say something, but you don’t know how to go about approaching women!
At some point in our lives most of us guys have been in the exact same situation, and i can bet that over 89% of us have no idea on how to go and speak to a woman. For those that think they know, and use one liners, or some corny chat up line we heard somewhere, we are more than likely going to fluff our chances.
If the girl is pretty hot, she’s probably heard every chat up line out there, and is sick of being the attention of so many men. What she is looking for is something totally different. Approaching women is easy when you know how! Here are 5 tips on going about it in the right way:
Tip #1: Be confident!
The way we stand, your walk, how you behave gives out a stack of signals on what type of person you are. Arms folded, body slouched, head down. these are all signs that you lack confidence…so don’t go walking over like Quasimodo!
Use the 3 second rule when you plan on approaching women, head up, chest out, and a nice firm, yet relaxed walk will give out all the right signals. Walk over calm and casual and try and keep eye contact when approaching women.
Tip #2: Show that you are very interested in her!
Yes i know…walking over to her and starting a conversation is probably enough of a signal to show you are interested in her, but pay attention to what she says, don’t throw out random words, and look her in the eyes when she is talking to you. Don’t get pulling the label off your beer bottle or looking around the room whilst she is talking, this will put her off straight away. Fidgeting can be very distracting!
Tip #3: Be playful!
Think of the woman as your bratty little sister. I don’t mean start pulling her hair or calling her names either… talk to her in a light and playful way. Make a lighthearted joke about something or someone in the room and smile a lot. Tease her in a nice way, women love humor! If you can make a woman laugh consistently and get those good feelings flowing through them, they’ll love you! Watch some good stand up comedy or read up on humor before you start approaching women if you don’t think you’re funny.
Tip #4: Always end the conversation first
By ending the conversation first, does a few things. Firstly it shows the woman you are not a needy guy, and also may come across as if you are busy, and if she is interested in you she will have to work hard to get you. I don’t mean stop the conversation in middle sentence and say “thanks for that..gotta go!”. Say something like, “hey, it’s been nice chatting, I’m going to get back to my mates now” Secondly, it puts you in control of the situation. Remember this every time when approaching women.
Tip #5: Get her contact details!
If everything is going smoothly, don’t be afraid to ask for her number. Tell her to write her mobile number and email down on a piece of paper or something. I always ask for their number and email address when approaching women. If you do get a second date, arrange it so you go for a coffee and a chat somewhere quiet. It’s then just you, her and conversation, and women love that kind of meeting. By using the tips above, you should now have no problem approaching women. Good luck with your endeavors!
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