Building Sexual Tension Like a Pickup Artist
Sexual tension is a must when your dealing with attraction and seduction. With out sexual energy a man will not succeed with a woman. If you want to read more about what happens if there is no sexual tension see the articles on my blog about why a girl says “lets just be friends”. Fortunately for us sexual tension is an ingrained primal force in both men and women. This means that producing it isn’t hard it just takes some specific tactics. It all comes down to body language and flirting.
In order to produce sexual tension you can do a number of things. I have a few I’m listing here but this is by no means an exhaustive list.
1. Cat string theory. We all know that a cat when offered a string to chase will only do so if the string is trying to get away from it. When you stop moving the string the cat becomes board very quickly and and wanders off. Its the same with women if you are no challenge to them you have zero chance of attracting them. So when you are attracting a woman you want to always seem catch-able but just be out of reach.
3.Teasing or Flirting. Yes teasing a girl is flirting. There is an unlimited amount of things that you can tease a girl about but there are also a few that you shouldn’t. A good rule of thumb is don’t tease her about anything that she could be deeply self conscious about. A few things like this would be her weight, her body, her looks. Don’t tease about something she can not easily change. As example you could tease her about wearing flip flops but not about her nose.
3. Triangular gazing. If you read up on body language you will find that there is a whole set of body language tells that women have when there attracted to a guy. One of these is triangular gazing. to set up something like this you would start by looking deeply looking into one of her eyes then flickering your vision to her lips for just a second then looking up into her other eye. Don’t do it to quickly you need to do this slowly and with a more random rhythm. This will lead to a kiss if done correctly.
I’m Jesse or “Savoir Faire” to the Pickup community. I’ve been in the game for two years. When I started I was so shy and socially crippled that a simple conversation with any woman was a virtual impossibility. Today I can talk to any woman, live a life that I only could have dreamed of, and have amazing success with the most incredible women. I run a web site and blog that I started as a kind of “how do i get into the game” informational space. I want to help guys like me reach there full potential. Once you have had a chance to read my article join me over at http://www.seductionarts.webuda.com.
