Want to attract girls easily to you beginning RIGHT NOW? I’m about to share with you a powerful concept…
Humor.
If you’ve ever seen a survey that asks women what they want in a man, you’ll find that humor pretty much always comes within the top 3.
Many names have been given to this concept of using humor to flirt…things like cocky-funny, simple teasing, sarcasm, and even “negging.” You might have heard one or more of these names before.
What you might not know is that many guys play the humor cards the wrong way with women, and as a result, tend to blow their chances…
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If you are to get a woman laughing and SIMULTANEOUSLY attract her, there are certain principles you must understand that knowing them and following them will provide you great success with women and dating. They are known as the 4 RULES of humor.
RULE #1: No Clowns in Flirting
You have to walk a fine line between using humor and successfully attracting her versus acting like a clown. You won’t attract women by being or acting like a clown. It can come off like you are trying too hard. You may have noticed this when other guys try to get woemn to laugh and end up making a fool out of themselves instead.
Acting clown-like actually lowers your social status and increases your desperate-ness in her eyes…like you desperately want her approval… And that’s a killer of attraction.
Definitely no slapstick humor. That only gets women to laugh AT you instead of WITH you.
If you are thinking about learning about humor from comedians, I would think twice. Many comedians who can get women to laugh a lot rarely get laid!
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RULE #2: Tease Her
Perhaps you can remember how 5th grade boys tend to act a certain way when they like a certain girl. They sometimes pull her hair playfully or even call her names.
Although I don’t endorse pulling her hair (at least not for now), TEASING her is a fantastic way to incorporate humor into your arsenal for attracting women. You don’t want to be a jerk though. It’s about treating the girl in a particular way that displays to her you are totally comfortable in your own skin and can tease her.
An example of how you can tease her include…
• Giving her a nickname (my personal favorite)
• Mocking her voice
• With a smile on your face, mess with the things she says
By teasing a girl, you are assuming familiarity, and if the two of you just met and you are ALREADY teasing her, there’s really no “uncomfortable period” that typically happens when two people just meet.
RULE #3: Use Your Body Language
One common pattern of great comedians is that they use their entire body as they go through their routine. I mean they involve their facial expressions, utilize props, gestures with their hands, and anything they can grab ahold of…all in an effort to make people laugh.
Again, no clown (or a guy who acts like a clown) is ever going to attract women. However, make sure you use your BODY LANGUAGE in ways that ensure congruence with the things you say. You can do this by establishing physical contact while you tease her. This shows her you are a guy who is comfortable to play around her.
Some ways to do this are…
• Playfully swatting her
• Pushing her away, only to pull her back into a hug
• Playing games like “hand slapping” and “thumb war”
Just simply break the “touch” barrier by simultaneously using humor while attracting her.
RULE #4: Vary What You Do
Want an analogy for using humor to attract women? Well, think of humor more like a spice than the meal itself.
By SOLELY teasing her and making her laugh, you don’t provide her the opportunity to notice the other great aspects of your personality, so it is definitely important to use other things that continue to help you build (and maintain) attraction.
Some things you can do while she’s laughing are…
• Establish physical contact
• Tell stories
• Build deep rapport
• Ask her questions
Doing these kinds of things give her the chance to notice you as a well-rounded individual, rather than only as someone who can make her laugh.
So, for attracting girls, one of your most powerful tools in your toolbox is humor. Be sure to get it right by adhering to the 4 rules of humor you’ve just read so that you can create a connection that is both flirty and fun…and always works in your favor to get the girl.
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