It’s a good idea to exercise caution before you ask questions on a first date.
It’s perfectly normal for guys to be slightly nervous when meeting up with a woman for the first time. They get very hung up on ensuring the girl is impressed. And yet they’re simultaneously doing all they can to make sure they don’t mess everything up.
And with all this ‘stuff’ going on inside their minds, men usually wind up overwhelming their date with questions, forcing her to do all the talking, while they mostly stay quiet and try not to put a foot wrong. But this just leads to one massive amount of disappointment – And we’ll explain the reasons why in a matter of moments.
At this stage, what you want to take away from all this is: Don’t put all your effort into asking the right questions.
Why?
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Imagine how it seems from her perspective: When she gets hit by one question, followed by another, and yet more questions, she’ll begin to feel it’s more like an interview than a date! Where is the fun in that?
Also, how on earth will she get to know you if you rarely say anything? If you’re not willing to talk about yourself, then why should she bother sharing information?
Stop believing the way forward is to to ask loads of questions during a date. There are much more effective approaches, so let’s run through some here:
Tease Her Playfully
Focusing on ensuring a girl feels great about herself is an excellent way to begin. And if you tease her in a playful way, it will help to make the interaction fun. And what’s the best way to react if she’s nervous and fires a bunch of questions at you? Easy. Simply continue to tease her and make your answers playful. So if she asks you, “Are you dating other women?”, you might respond with, “No – Other men”.
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Should this be interpreted as meaning you can’t ask a single question on a 1st date? Of course you can ask some questions. A girl expects you to show interest in her by asking a few questions, so that she feels you are attracted to more than just her looks. You might ask questions like:
“What would be the 1st place you would visit if you could travel anywhere?” And, “Can you remember what you wanted to be when you were growing up?”
The key is to simply focus on being playful and enjoying yourselves. Your first date will be a lot more enjoyable when you remember to stop the questions, and be playful instead.
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