If you want to get your ex back even if you feel the situation is hopeless, then this article was written for you. In particular, we are going to talk about how to react to the break up decision, why you should respect the breakup for now, and how to place a seed of doubt in your partner without the realizing. By the time you’ve finished reading this article, you’ll have a good idea about how you can get your ex back easier than you may have thought.
The first (and critical) step for winning back your ex, is making sure you act in the right way when you first learn they’re going to break it off with you. I’m guessing that your initial reaction to this is going to be one based on either fear or angry – and you’re just not going to want to “agree” with what they’re saying. This is a natural feeling, but if you act on it – you’ll make it much harder to win them back.
A better strategy is to agree with them that the breakup is the right thing to do. This alone will probably surprise them, and show you in a non-needy light – which is going to work in your favor later on. Also, remember that a breakup may only be temporary, despite what they say. People are emotional creatures, not logical. If they are telling you they never want to hear from you again, and they never want to see your face again – don’t get too upset – it’s just their emotions talking. One of the worst decisions you can make is to fight or resist their decision – you’ll just reinfoce it and make it stronger.
In fact, you do react in a negative manner, you’re going to help them reinforce their decision every time you show this emotion. So make sure you don’t over react when you hear they want to break up with you. You just need to agree with them that it’s a good idea for you to both take a break from your relationship.
The next step is how to make them doubt their making the right decision. Some people may think this is deceptive or manipulative, so use this with care. If you act in this nice, friendly and supportive manner, they are going to start wondering if they’re making the right choice – you will have planted a seed of doubt. They are almost certainly going to start doubting the reasons for breaking up with you, just because you’re not reacting how they thought you were going to.
You need to support the idea that you should both take a break from each other – to give you BOTH time to think about whether this is where you want to be. This will also place the seed that you’re considering breaking up with them, too.
In conclusion, this article has shown you some powerful techniques for how to get your ex back even if the situation seems hopeless. These things were reacting appropriately the the break up news, respecting their initial decision fully, and how to place a “seed of doubt” in their mind about whether breaking up with you is what they really want. Now that you’ve read this article, you’re armed with a powerful psychological technique for getting your ex back.
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